My first random thought has to do with dating and the games people play. This is obviously something that many people talk about becuase it just is frustrating and pretty gay honestly. So...according to my room mate Autumn here is the game:
1. Meet adorable guy
2. Start to like adorable guy(very hard in my case)
3. Go on some other dates with adorable guy
4. Think that guy likes you(according to actions on said guy's part, very misleading)
5. Go on some more dates with adorable guy(this ensures that you feel like guy likes you still)
6. Don't hear from guy for two days except maybe a few random texts here and there. No explanation.
7. Girl(me...or you...) starts feeling insecure(This is what makes Anne very angry because Anne doesn't like to feel insecure) wondering why the guy acts like he likes her and then blows her off.
8. Very wise room mate tells girl that guy is scared to commit and probably wants to date other girls so he is avoiding said girl because he is scared she will want something more(guy obviously doesn't know said girl very well yet)
9. Girl is supposed to just avoid guy as well and not make first move for contact. This comes with also telling boy no if he DOES ask you out again to "play the game".
10. Girl gets sick of the game and gives up. The end.
This doesn't sound like a very fun game. I would much rather play poker or phase ten.
Boy do I remember the frustration of the game. Good luck. I finally got to the the point where I just made them take it slow and didn't play any games and let things fall as they would. Worked out ok:) Think you're going to meet someone amazing and live happily ever after-the end.
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